About 3 weeks ago my husband hit me and told me was going to kill me. I find out now he had been arrested for crack. He admitted to me 6 or 8 months ago that he had used Cocaine once….now I find out it was Crack. I wasn’t happy about it then, but didn’t really know what to do. I couldn’t believe it was happening really.
I filed a restraining order against him and filed for divorce. He continues to text message me saying he can’t believe I abandoned him in his time of greatest need.
He is almost like an addiction for me. I love him, I want to help him, but besides the drugs he has trashed my life. How do I break this cycle? We have been married for almost 6 years and it has been one thing after the other….how do I get off this ride? I am seeing a therapist since the big fight and filing for divorce, but it has been 3 weeks and I don’t feel like I am getting any where. When will the pain stop?