I always knew my mother-in-law was a little promiscuous. She had been with two handfuls of men before she met her husband. They just got married. She always puts her husband and his children before my husband and my sister-in-law. She treats them like garbage, anyways
Before my husband was born she had a baby and he was born with a cleft lip and pallet and he was deformed. Today I found out it was because she had a cocaine addiction. She also was very embarrassed of the baby and did not want to hold him. He died the very same day. Turned out the baby probably wasn’t my father-in-laws.
Then when my husband was born he also had a cleft lip but no pallet. My grandmother-in-law told me she was very embarrassed of him also.
I cannot keep a secret from my husband especially this big of a secret, but I don’t want to hurt him either? What should I do?
If I would tell him how should I bring it up and let him know?