A little background, I am 26 and my husband and I have been together for 13 years! He has a very addictive personality and has had issues with (in order) marijuana, crystal meth, acid, cocaine, crack, alcohol and now sex. Somehow we have managed to work through all of his addictions, except for the most recent sex. He has been unfaithful twice in the past year, and I suspect he is doing it again. Our kids are 9,7 and 4. Should I make an effort to work through this again, and risk my own health (due to the infidelity) or should I call it quits? I am so confused, I just dont know what it is that I am supposed to do at this point. Do most marriages have this many problems?