Open Question: Should I stay married for the children? Is marriage supposed to be this complicated?

A little background, I am 26 and my husband and I have been together for 13 years! He has a very addictive personality and has had issues with (in order) marijuana, crystal meth, acid, cocaine, crack, alcohol and now sex. Somehow we have managed to work through all of his addictions, except for the most recent sex. He has been unfaithful twice in the past year, and I suspect he is doing it again. Our kids are 9,7 and 4. Should I make an effort to work through this again, and risk my own health (due to the infidelity) or should I call it quits? I am so confused, I just dont know what it is that I am supposed to do at this point. Do most marriages have this many problems?

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One Response to Open Question: Should I stay married for the children? Is marriage supposed to be this complicated?

  1. diana says:

    hey girl i have been in a very simular situation. My husband and I have been together for 11 years. Hey has a very addictive personality as well. He has had problems with weed, meth, crack, and drinking. I have stayed through alot of shit and even put up with him screwing around. we I ended up with an STD, broke, had my ass kicked way to many times. I left four months ago. Im lonley and scared. But I am happy and my 2 children are too. They knew things were not right. So, no you don’t stay for the kids. but i will tell you this dont leave if you still have hope. I gave up. I just couldnt do it anymore

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