Monthly Archives: February 2009

ive been using cocaine; marijuana and ectasy for 7 years now and i want to quit but dont know how. im a great guy but drugs are my ONLY problem. i love my life but i dont want to mess things up by my drug addiction. i neeed to get help but form who? friends?,family?, or professional help? thanks for trying to help me!!!!

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My brother is a bigggggg time addict of meth, oxy cotton, weed, cocaine ectt..
I hate how my brother is, and i dont know what to do.
We were so close then the drugs took over, he lives with my nephew and i am deathly afraid my nephew is recieving these drugs and or being hurt, mentally. (my brother would never hurt his son, ever)
My baby boy is two years old and i hate how this is effecting our family.
Smoking weed is one thing, but this is hard,

what should i do?
We’ve tried rehab, CPS, ect…
my brother lives on his own, he isn’t still in our eyes watch all the time.

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My best friend is 100% addicted to cocaine and I cant get him to stop. What do I do now? He disagrees with everything I say and sometimes ignores me completely when I bring it up. Please help him!!

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1)A lot of porn is RAPE.
Most of these women are FORCED to commit the most humiliating sexual acts for money which is RAPE.
It may not be kidnapped on the street and raped there….but it is rape especially psychologically.

Women are kept as sex slaves and live in cramped rooms where they are abused and forced to ‘act’.
These men purchase make up etc for them so they appear ‘normal looking’ and ‘willing’. They are used, exploited in the most heart wrenching manner and then passed on to another set of ‘filmers’….the rings of men who collaborate.
They cannot escape, their lives are threatened.

Human trafficking is REAL and a MAJOR source of getting these women, especially in Columbia.

Asian, Korean and Russian women (slavs) are often raped initially and then threatened to have the videos shown to their families who will disown them if they don’t agree to ‘act’.
Poor families in this part of the world often send or sell their daughters off to these ‘rings’ of men who pay them very very little and abuse them to make them act as though they are willing to engage in these sexual acts. They are sex slaves.

2)Not all of porn is rape.

They are ‘porn stars’ both male and female who make good money and may even enjoy it. But it is the subjugation of women that facilitates porn. These women are portrayed as OBJECTS to be exploited.
They are depicted as pieces of meat to be abused in any form whatsoever. This in turn affects the mindsets of people and is detrimental to wider society…men especially walk around with the perception that women WANT to be treated this way and this is normal.

One’s attitude towards sex changes due to porn…and not in a positive way but in the most destructive manner.

3)Sexual pleasure of any kind and ANY form besides that between a man and woman in a relationship is considered cheating.
At least for people who share high standards and expect to be treated properly.
It is downright desire and very disrespectful to one’s partner and has ruined many many marriages.
People are depicted in porn as sexual animals and viewers walk around consciously or subconsciously seeing people in their daily lives that way. It is a distortion, a disease.
Porn viewers are often people who feel as though they are all alone in the entire world. They are guilt ridden; yet may not recognize it or turn a blind perverted eye.

4)It is the market for porn, the online viewing etc which CAUSES this abuse and all viewers are responsible. Not just for the abuse of these particular women in porn but for the oppression of women in general as it is porn which facilitates wider perceptions.

Women are abused from all different cultures as the porn industry has stereotyped….black women seen as vulgar, indi and asian women submissive etc. This is despicable.

5)There is no gender equality in porn.
For this who wish to justify their viewing by claiming it is not abuse of women as they are both men and women in porn the fact of the matter is that there are no ‘rings’ of women who capture men and FORCE them to ‘act’.
With regards to porn stars that is not rape; women are still SEEN as the oppressed and exploited OBJECTS and this is what fuels the abuse in wider society (even though these porn stars are willing). With regards to unfaithfulness in a relationship (point 3) it applies to both genders.

6)There are sickasses amongst us who are aware of all of this or who choose to live in denial.
They take pleasure in watching women being sexually tortured …or trivialized in the cases of consenting porn stars.
These are the perverts and sickasses that CAUSE abuse to continue.

7)Mary Anne Layden, co-director of the Sexual Trauma and Psychopathology Program at the University of Pennsylvania’s Center for Cognitive Therapy, ‘internet is a perfect drug delivery system because you are anonymous, aroused and have role models for these behaviors’. Pornography addicts have a more difficult time recovering from their addiction than cocaine addicts, since coke users can get the drug out of their system, but pornographic images stay in the brain forever. Anybody that doesn’t think that pornography is addictive hasn’t tried to stop looking at it.

8)Watching porn is not the norm.

Contrary to popular belief it corrupts your mind and leaves images in your mind of sexual activity that is just sex , NOT LOVE .

It creates a false illusion of what a relationship is, it creates a false illusion of what women REALLY want, and it ultimately creates a false security for people who lack in confidence to actually go out into the real world and meet a real person and actually get to know one another.

To sit and watch porn is to sit in isolation , have images burned into your brain of fake people with fake body parts , fake tans , fake personalities , and separate yourself from the real world .

9)THIS IS A CONFESSION FROM A VIEWER. ‘I like porn because; I not so secr
Men look at porn because they have low morals and no respect for women. Everyone knows that porn is filthy and degrading to women, which is why most *decent* women don’t like it. It has nothing to do with the woman’s unwillingness to try new things in the bedroom .

26)Couples who think pornography will “spice up” their sex life or enhance their marital relationship are being bamboozled by the porn industry. Studies prove that regular viewing of pornography is destructive to marital relationships and leads to one or both partners becoming dissatisfied with their current sexual relationship
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A woman’s objection to the use of pornography has nothing to do with low self-esteem or insecurity issues. In fact, it suggests just the opposite: a woman with a high level of self-respect is more likely to object to porn use than a women with low self-esteem or low moral character

28) “Pornography is destructive not only because it is insulting to one’s wife, but because it takes one’s

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I have a addiction i love smelling my farts sometimes i fart in a cup and quickly smell it yesterday this one fart was long and the smell lovely i just can not stop i leave them brewing for hours and i just can not wait to smell my juicy fart and sniff it all up in my nose. I have done a line of fart so much better than cocaine and injecting farts ummm the best.

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MY group is called jenns_phenomenal_women and I would love to have some members who can also help me. I want everyone in the group to be supportive, caring and understanding to other women with addiction. I want women with any addiction to join; herion, narcotic painkillers, cocaine, etc. All of the women can help each other when anyone is on the verge of a relapse or if you are too scared to go to an NA meeting.

Thank you, and I hope to get some members. As of yet nobody has joined my group, and I am starting to give up on myself. If you want to join, simply reply to my question, and I will send you an invite. Hope to hear from all you phenomenal women soon!
If you cannot be contacted via email, just drop me a line. I can be contacted via email.

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An ingredient in licorice shows promise as an antidote for the toxic effects of cocaine abuse, including deadly overdoses of the highly addictive drug, researchers are reporting.  Continue reading →

I have a cousin, a very close cousin who I care about so much and would go to the end of the universe for.

Her crack mother left her and her 3 siblings 9 years ago to persue her drug habbits. My cousin, 17 now has been battling her own drug addiction to cocain since she was 14.
She has a very addictive personality and is often persuaded to do things she doesn’t want to do, hence her original addiction at such a young age which was brought on by her boyfriend originally forcing her to use.
She got pregnant, lost the baby, got pregnant again and vowed not to use drugs and fix up her life. (The misscarriage tramatized her a bit) So she was doing so well, came to live with me got off the cocaine, ate healthy, didn’t drink at all. But as soon as the baby was born a girl showed up that ruined EVERYTHING we worked so hard for.

I found out recently that she introduced my cousin to heroin a few weeks ago, my cousin even told me she didn’t really want to do it but the girl kept insisting and insisting and because my cousin is a people pleasing drug addict of opportunity (which this girl was well aware of before offering the drugs because she USED TO BE a family friend). And keeps comming over to my cousins new home all doped up with more “bags of fun” and even when told to keep it away by my cousin she still brings it around….now 1-4 times a week.

Im on the verge of killing this girl, shes turning my sweet cousin who finally got her life together back into a drug fiend and I can’t handle it.
btw this girl has been arrested 3-4 times in the past 2 months for possession and the police keep letting her go, or she makes bail
I KNOW my cousin needs help, I don’t claim that she is blameless….I claim that she is a sick impressionable young girl she knows she needs help as well…..my first order of helping her sort out her life is getting the scum away from her that is enabling her to obtain the drugs and pushing her to use them. As a recoverd drug addict myself I know how it feels to not want to use and have people wave it in your face drugs remove your judgment and willpower.

Thats like handing a new pack of unfiltered ciggarettes to someone with lung cancer and saying, Have a happy death!

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